2.2. 101 Things I Want to Know, Have, Do or Be – My Bucket, Goals and Vision List

Goal of this lesson: What do you want your life to be? One way to understand that is to create a list of the 101 things that you want to shape your life. Here are 101 (well 109) things that I want to focus on in my life.

We have a monthly event at my work called “Women at Pluralsight”. This is a well-organized chance to hear from women here at our company as well as other inspirational voices from around the world. For May, we welcomed Renee West who blew me away with her story and inspirational message.

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Me taking a break on the hike up to Angels Landing in Zion National Park.

Renee West has had quite the life. A twice-divorced mother of 3 in her thirties, she rose to become the first woman CEO of a hotel on the Las Vegas strip – the Luxor and Excalibur(!). In a city with a long-dominated male culture, this is additionally inspiring. How did she do it? You can watch this talk West gave at a Tedx event which touches on her journey. It’s 17 minutes, but it’s seriously inspiring. I’d encourage you to watch it if you haven’t already.

In addition to hard work and intense motivation in the form of her kids, she credits her success to three invitations given to her by people in her life:

  1. Spend 1 hour a week improving at the craft you want to be paid for.
  2. Be a lifelong learner for topics outside of that.
  3. Create a list of 101 Things I Want to Know, Have, Do or Be

I love this list. Even though it’s simple, it gets to a very important core set of life skills: increasing income, knowing what you want to do with it today, and being open to new things. Consistently doing all three can lead to amazing things, and West is the living proof of that.

Spend 1 Hour a Week Improving

For almost 20 years, I’ve been creating websites non-stop. This is my area of expertise that I’ve been able to make a living at. West mentioned something that hit close to home to me:

If you spend an hour a week learning something new for a year, you’ll know more than 95% of your peers.

Based on my experience – this is so true. This assumes a base knowledge though. If you and a coworker are both right out of college, the one who dedicates time learning how to do better at their job will grow their skills amazingly fast. Even just 1 hour a week will add up over the months and years.

The idea of spending 1 hour a week improving at the craft you want to be paid for hits close to home for me. Early in my career, I spent a ton of time getting better at programming. I was reading books about software craftsmanship, design patterns and writing clean code and turning that knowledge into career advancements and leadership positions.

After hitting a plateau in that field as a tech lead, I moved on to reading about managing software developers, project management and building strong teams. That led to running the largest team at Code School and constantly delivering amazing courses with an amazing and talented team.

More recently I’ve switched from engineering to product, which has led to reading about user research, qualitative/quantitative analysis, data visualization and product market fit. I’ve always considered myself an introvert, but as part of my role now, I interview people every week about their experience learning to understand what problems they run into to help shape the products I work on. Jumping into that a decade ago, I would’ve been intimidated by the thought of just talking with people I didn’t know. A lot changes in a decade.

For me this outside education has been a superpower, allowing me to be inspired to do new things at work, keeping me both interested and productive through 7+ years at the same company. I’ve also been extremely fortunate in an employer that has been flexible for me to explore new areas and grow into new roles. I know not everyone is that fortunate.

Be a Lifelong Learner

This may sound like the first one. The difference is that finding things to learn outside of your career path is important. If your entire life is your career, you will not be a well-round person. We all know that one person who talks about work all the time or has been pulled into a job at some time where they are doing it 24/7. Even if you’re a founder of a company, I’d argue that it should not be your identity.

This comes back to just being an interesting person. Being a lifelong learner doesn’t mean you need to go back to school, or that you need to get that next degree or certification. Instead, this is about finding areas that you can be passionate about in life and just learning about them. Learning how to learn and become great at practice is a skill that can be learned.

Whether this is making new meals, exploring your hometown, listening, reading, learning a language or instrument, or developing a new business skill outside of your usual focus, learn will make you a more interesting and happy person. There are times when I have not been able to enjoy learning something, but even with those I learned a lot about myself.

101 Things I Want to Know, Have, Do or Be

This is a long list. It’s a combination of personal mission, goals, bucket list and definition of who you want to be – all in one. Renee recommends not including anything on this list you have plans to complete already, or things you’re currently doing. It should be aspirational and inspirational.

I’ve created similar goals lists at various times in my life which have helped focus my time. Buffett’s 25/5 list comes to mind as a prioritized list of what to work on. For this list of 101 items, the goal isn’t to think about priorities or realism – but to dream big about what you want out of life. Be honest and be authentic.

Some things to think about: include a combination of things you want to do, things you want to own, things you want to learn, how you want people to experience you in the world, and how your relationships with other people to be.

Here’s a rough cut of my bucket list of 101 things I want to know, have, do or be.

Dessert at Olo in Helsinki

Lifestyle (8)

Complete: 4
🧠 Mindset: 2
Someday: 2

  1. ✅ Start my mornings relaxed and refreshed.
    1. ✅ I’m waking up later every day now that I’ve retired as part of my schedule.
  2. ✅ Get out into nature all the time.
    1. ✅ I go hiking here in Salt Lake City once a week when it’s not snowing or rainy.
    2. ✅ We take Lily (our 11-year-old dog) on walks outside every day, and sometimes out to nature.
    3. ✅ I skied a bunch this past winter, but will probably skip it next time. (December 2018)
    4. ✅ Overnight backpack trip with friends (May 2019)
    5. ✅ Started camping with friends more.
    6. ➡ Longer hike? Multi-day? Highline trail?
  3. ➡ Always fly first class.
  4. ✅ Reduce possessions down to the point we can travel anywhere in the world for any length of time.
    1. ✅ Condensed everything down to our apartment and a closet.
    2. ➡ There’s nothing more to do here until we move next time.
  5. 🧠 Be happy, and inspire those around me to be happy.
    1. 🧠 Doing my best here on Minafi and in life.
  6. 🧠 Leave everything better than you found it.
    1. 🧠 This includes things, people, and places.
  7. ➡ Spend a year not driving.
    1. Sold my car, bringing us down to a 1-car household.
    2. ➡ Maybe when/if we move outside the US or to NY.
  8. ✅ Have dessert all the time.
    1. ✅ I’m so glad I added this one. Whenever there’s a dessert option I take it!
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Dotonbori street in Osaka, Japan

Education (9)

Complete: 3
📈 In progress: 6
Someday: 1

  1. ➡ Learn how to surf.
    1. ➡ Maybe in the future when we live a beach
  2. 📈 Learn to speak Japanese fluently.
    1. ✅ For a while, I did a Duolingo lesson every day.
    2. Practice hiragana and katakana every week until I have them down.
    3. 📈 Take a WaniKani lesson every day to help learn kanji.
    4. ➡ Read through Genki, a much-recommended Japanese workbook.
    5. ➡ To improve this in a significant way, I’ll need to spend a lot more time on it. In the meantime, my goal is to not stop. I’d rather make slow progress and enjoy it than burn out.
  3. ➡ Learn enough Spanish to understand Mrs. Minafi’s family.
  4. ➡ Learn to play the piano.
    1. ✅ I took lessons for about a year (2013). I couldn’t find a way to thoroughly enjoy practicing.
    2. ➡ Bring this back up someday. Maybe when there are better lessons available online.
  5. ➡ Learn how to write in a comedic style.
  6. ✅ Learn how to cook Asian dishes I love from scratch.
    1. ✅ Made some delicious Korean fried chicken and Pad Thai recently.
    2. ✅ Read Pok Pok: Food and Stories from the Streets, Homes, and Roadside Restaurants of Thailand
    3. 📈 Trying to create more dishes basic dishes – ones that use fewer ingredients than the original, but are easier to create on a random night.
  7. ➡ Take an improv comedy class.
  8. ✅ Learn to take amazing photos of adventures and people.
    1. ✅ Have a Fuji XT-1 with a handful of lenses. Still learning to use it to its potential.
    2. ➡ Take a class on how to use Lightroom to edit.
  9. ✅ Learn how to create interactive visualizations that help teach others.
    1. ✅ Created An Interactive Guide to Early Retirement and Financial Independence
    2. ✅ Wrote Data Says the Millennial Early Retirement Age is 40 – Here’s How They Could Do It
    3. ✅ Wrote The Gender Pay Gap Told Through Data From Our Finance Blogging Community
    4. ✅ Wrote The Minimal Investor ESPP Guide and Calculator
    5. 📈 Working on a few more now!
  10. 📈 Learn to create scroll driven interactive posts
    1. 📈 Working on an interactive S&P 500 Visualization

Financial (5)

Complete: 1
📈 In progress: 2
🧠 Mindset: 1
Someday: 1

  1. ➡ Get paid to travel.
    1. ➡ Start a travel blog someday? Create a site to help others share their travel experiences?
  2. ✅ Retire by 38 (as in no longer need to work to live).
    1. Retired at 36!
  3. 📈 Allow my parents and in-laws to live a financially secure life.
  4. 📈 Create a business that teaches people how to improve their lives.
    1. Minafi’s Vision strives for this: “Help 1 million people make their first informed investment.”
    2. My personal mission follows suit: “I help empower people to transform their ideas into reality by enlivening education.”
    3. ➡ Continue doing what I’m doing! It won’t happen overnight.
  5. 🧠 Never worry about cost/price.
    1. 🧠 We usually don’t worry about this unless it’s a big, expensive purchase.

Events (10)

Complete: 2
Someday: 8

  1. ➡ Watch the Winter Olympics in person.
  2. ➡ Watch the Summer Olympics in person.
    1. ➡ Japan 2021?
  3. ➡ Watch the World Cup in person.
    1. ➡ US World Cup 2026?
  4. ➡ See the tulips blooming in The Netherlands.
  5. ➡ See Wisteria blooming in Japan.
  6. ✅ Attend a Ted event.
    1. ✅ Attended TEDxOrlando.
    2. ✅ Attended TEDxSaltLakeCity.
  7. ➡ Go to burning man.
  8. ➡ Visit Germany during Oktoberfest.
  9. ➡ Visit the lantern festival in Thailand.
  10. ✅See Hamilton on Broadway in New York
    1. ✅ 2016! Most of the original cast had left, but some were still there.
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Me at a wolf sanctuary near Colorado Springs.

Experiences (20)

Complete: 2
🧠 Mindset: 2
📈 In progress: 1
Someday: 15

  1. ➡ Go skydiving.
    1. ➡ I’ll do this whenever Mrs. Minafi is OK with me dying.
  2. ➡ Go on a Safari.
  3. ➡ Go Scuba diving.
  4. ➡ Live in a Buddhist Monastery for a month.
  5. ➡ Hike the Nakasendo Way trail from Kyoto to Tokyo.
  6. Eat at every Michelin Star (1+) restaurant in the world.
    1. Removed in 2019.
    2. I’d rather focus on what’s good and local than what’s “rated”.
    3. I’ve enjoyed 1-star places much more than 2 and 3-star places. And food trucks more than that!
    4. Since that realization, I’ve removed this one from the list
  7. 🧠 Eat the most delicious local meals from around the world
    1. We constantly find great places!
      1. Olo in Helsinki, Finland
      2. Vendôme in Cologne, Germany
      3. Longman & Eagle in Chicago, IL, US
      4. Benu (3) in San Francisco, CA
      5. Kin Khao (2) in San Francisco, CA
      6. Momofuku Ko (2) in New York, NY
    2. 🧠 Planning amazing meals is a core part of our trip planning.
  8. 🧠 Try the beer, wine, and alcohol from around the world.
    1. 🧠 Whenever we travel we look for local spirits, wines, and beers.
  9. ✅ See the latest shows on Broadway in NYC every few years
    1. ✅ Went to NY in 2019 to see Moulin Rouge and Sleep No More.
    2. ➡ Next trip in 2024-ish?
  10. ➡ Live (and eat) in a fishing village.
  11. 📈 Go on a month-long camping trip.
    1. ✅ Longest camping trip: 7 days when I was 7 years old.
    2. ✅ Started doing overnight backpack camping trips.
    3. ➡ Go on a multi-day backpacking trip around Utah with friends. Maybe hike the Highline trail?
  12. ➡ Climb a glacier.
  13. ➡ Fly in a glider.
    1. ➡ Many opportunities to do this in Utah!
  14. ✅ Hike through ruins around the world.
    1. ✅ Angkor Wat in 2018.
    2. ➡ Want to do more!
  15. ➡ Dive with sharks.
  16. ➡ Go dog sledding.
  17. ➡ Explore an unexplored cave.
  18. ➡ Complete an arcade game on a single quarter.
  19. ➡ See the northern lights.
    1. ➡ New Zealand? South lights!
    2. ➡ Iceland? Alaska?
  20. ➡ Live in NYC for a year.
  21. ➡ Hike the Appalachian Trail.
    1. ➡ I’m not convinced I want to do this.

Fitness (7)

📈 In progress: 6
Someday: 2

  1. 📈 Be able to do every CrossFit workout RX (in a reasonable time)
    1. ✅ I can do most workouts, but not in what I’d consider a reasonable time.
    2. 📈 Workout 2x a week in our apartment gym.
    3. ➡ I’ve paused CrossFit for now due to COVID-19.
  2. 📈 Run a marathon.
    1. ✅ Ran 10k (April 2019)
    2. ✅ Ran 14k (May 2019)
    3. ✅ Ran a half marathon (June 2019)
    4. 📈 Training for a full marathon in 2020!
  3. ➡ Learn how to confidently ski black diamond slopes
    1. ✅ I can confidently ski blue slopes.
    2. ✅ I’ve skied some black diamond slopes (2019).
    3. ➡ Take lessons with an instructor in (2020/2021).
  4. 📈 Run a mile in under 6 minutes.
    1. ✅ Fastest ever mile: 6:49 (2012)
    2. ✅ Most recent mile pace: 8:10 minutes (2020)
    3. 📈 Training now by running consistently and with lots of uphill runs.
  5. 📈 Be able to walk on my hands as long as my muscles allow.
    1. ✅ My max hand walk so far: ~20ft.
    2. 📈 Practicing more kickups and standing still in my apartment.
  6. ➡ Scale a 5.11 rock climbing route.
    1. ➡ Join a rock climbing gym. Maybe slim down a few pounds to make this easier.
  7. 📈 Reach an advanced fitness level in most CrossFit exercises
    1. Beginner: 10
    2. Intermediate: 19
    3. Advanced: 5
  8. 📈 Complete the CrossFit workout “Murph” with a weighted vest.
    1. ✅ 51:17 in 2013, no vest, partitioned
    2. ✅ 51:00 in 2014, no vest, partitioned
    3. ✅ 58:22 in 2016, no vest, partitioned
    4. ✅ 56:56 in 2018, no vest, unpartitioned
    5. 📈 Bought a pullup car during COVID-19 for the apartment. Trying to practice these more! Pushups and overall cardiovascular endurance are still my limiting factors.
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Canyoneering in Zion

Relationships (11)

Complete: 2
📈 In progress: 1
🧠 Mindset: 4
Someday: 4

  1. 🧠 Have a joyful marriage.
    1. 🧠 Yesss (2017)
  2. ➡ Play board games with friends all the time.
    1. ✅ Got some friends into Settlers of Catan recently. Need to make this a repeating event.
    2. ✅ Have a repeating weekly event with friends where we often play games via Zoom. Cards Against Humanity and Jackbox have been the goto choices.
    3. ➡ With COVID-19 we haven’t been able to have as many game nights. It’s just not the same online. Looking forward to getting back together!
  3. 🧠 Share amazing adventures with others.
    1. ✅ Travel, backpacking, more.
    2. ➡ I’d love to schedule this in some way. A yearly fun event that’s open to friends.
  4. ➡ Help animals in need to find new homes.
    1. ➡ Look into how I can use my programming skills to help.
  5. ➡ Have dinner parties with friends.
    1. ✅ Been doing this a bunch.
    2. ➡ After COVID-19.
  6. 📈 Volunteer for a political campaign that helps drive real change in the world.
    1. 📈 Let’s turn Utah blue in 2020.
  7. ✅ Be able to drop everything for a sudden trip with friends.
    1. ✅ Went to Scotland last year with friends.
    2. ➡ We can always do this!
  8. 🧠 Have real, honest conversations about people’s dreams and goals
    1. 🧠 I’m trying to improve at having these conversations.
  9. ➡ Go on a retreat away from society with like-minded strangers on a common interest.
    1. ➡ Camp Mustache? Chautauqua? Camp FI?
    2. ➡ Again, after COVID.
  10. 🧠 Raise others around me up.
    1. 🧠 Doing OK, but want to do better
  11. ✅ Travel with friends.
    1. ✅ Scotland Trip (2018) with friends
    2. ✅ Camping & backpacking around Utah
    3. ➡ Where next?

Stories (7)

Complete: 5
📈 In progress: 2

  1. ✅ Read at least a book a week.
    1. ✅ 2013: 45 books
    2. ✅ 2014: 41 books
    3. ✅ 2015: 78 books
    4. ✅ 2016: 72 books
    5. ✅ 2017: 66 books
    6. ✅ 2018: 102 books!
    7. ✅ 2019: 135 books!
    8. 📈 2020: aiming for 100
  2. 📈 Watch every movie on the IMDB top 250.
    1. ➡ 157/250 so far according to iCheckMovies
  3. 📈 Read every science fiction and fantasy book on the NPR top 100 sci-fi list.
    1. ✅ 50 (2019)
    2. ✅ 60 (2020)
    3. ➡ 70 (2020)
  4. ✅ Volunteer at The Sundance Film Festival.
    1. ✅ Volunteered in 2019 and 2020!
    2. ➡ Not sure what’ll happen in 2021 due to COVID.
  5. ✅ Play lots of video games that have great storylines.
    1. ✅ 2018: Horizon Zero Dawn, Doki Doki Literature Club, Hollow Knight.
    2. ✅ 2019: Gris, God of War, Death Stranding, Red Dead Redemption 2.
    3. ✅ 2020: Final Fantasy VII Remake, The Last of Us II, Chrono Trigger.
  6. ✅ See every Cirque du Soliel show whenever we can
    1. ✅ La Nouba
    2. ✅ Ovo
    3. ✅ Quidam
    4. ✅ Beatles Love
    5. ✅ Michael Jackson
  7. ✅ See unusual local and interactive shows everywhere we go
    1. ✅ Frueza Bruta (2011)
    2. ✅ Sleep no More (2019)

Teaching (8)

Complete: 1
📈 In progress: 4
Someday: 3

  1. 📈 Teach a million people how to make their first informed investment.
    1. ✅ Almost 2,000 students have taken The Minimal Investor!
    2. ✅ Released The Minafi Investor Bootcamp in 2020.
    3. ➡ Figure out how to get the word out!
  2. ➡ See something I’ve created mentioned on national news.
    1. ➡ Maybe something Minafi or FIRE related?
  3. ➡ Inspire others to share their knowledge
  4. ✅ Create interactive teaching experiences that people remember.
    1. I’ve created some and will continue to create more.
  5. 📈 Teach and inspire kids to program.
    1. 📈 Find a place to volunteer here in Utah.
  6. ➡ Teach and inspire kids to be financially educated and independent.
    1. ✅ Met with Utah teachers about how they teach financial education.
    2. ➡ Figure out the next step to stay involved. Find a way to provide The Minafi Investor Bootcamp for free to teachers.
  7. 📈 Create a website that gets over 100,000 sustained visitors a month with minimal upkeep.
    1. 📈 Getting a whole 15k so far, so 85k to go!
    2. ➡ Continue writing articles, some SEO, some personal.
  8. 📈 Create and self-publish a product that lots of people enjoy.
    1. ✅ Created The Minafi Investor Bootcamp. Some people have enjoyed it, but there’s still a lot of work to go!
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Travel (23)

Complete: 2
📈 In progress: 2
Someday: 19

Domestic Travel (4), European Travel (4), Asian Travel (5).

  1. 📈 Visit all 50 US states.
    1. 42 States down. 8 to go! (42/50)
      1. Alaska
      2. Hawaii
      3. North Dakota
      4. South Dakota
      5. Minnesota
      6. Wisconsin
      7. Iowa
      8. Nebraska
  2. 📈 Visit every National Park in the US.
    1. 15 down, 48 to go! (15/62) Next up:
      1. Bryce Canyon (Utah)
      2. Capitol Reef (Utah)
      3. Yosemite (California)
      4. Great Sand Dunes (Colorado)
      5. Black Canyon of the Gunnison (Colorado)
  3. ✅ Visit Japan
    1. Went for 2 weeks in 2014.
    2. Went again for 2 weeks in 2017!
  4. ✅ Visit Southeast Asia
    1. Visited Vietnam, Laos, and Cambodia for our honeymoon.
  5. ➡ Visit and tour Venice.
  6. ➡ Take a slow trip around Europe.
  7. ➡ Take a slow trip around Italy.
  8. ➡ Visit and tour Greece.
  9. ➡ See the sunrise at Mt. Fuji.
  10. ➡ Visit Lhasa.
  11. ➡ Spend 2 weeks exploring Angkor Wat.
  12. ➡ Explore China.
  13. ➡ Explore Tibet.
  14. ➡ Visit every UNESCO world heritage sites. (Status: dozen-ish?/1073)
  15. ➡ Live somewhere for a month where no one speaks English.
  16. ➡ Live on every continent for a year (maybe less for Antarctica).
  17. ➡ Visit old-growth forests around the world.
  18. ➡ See The Great Barrier Reef.
  19. ➡ Spend a month in a rainforest.
  20. ➡ Visit and tour ancient Egyptian pyramids.
  21. ➡ See New Zealand, including where Lord of the Rings was filmed.
  22. ➡ Hike to Machu Pichu.
  23. ➡ Visit the Galápagos Islands

So this was a few more than 101, but it was close!

Total: 108 Goals
Complete: 21
🧠 Mindset: 9
📈 In progress: 24
Someday: 56

About This List

Creating this list was a lot of fun, and I’d highly recommend you create your own. In the 30s I started to slow down on ideas, but by the end, I had to start cutting things. This kind of blue-sky exercise is extremely inspiring.

After I wrote down the full list, theming these into a few categories took a little work. It helped to understand what areas I find most important, with travel, relationships and experiences being the standouts.

What was interesting to me was what was not on this list.

  • Real Estate. After owning/maintaining a home since I was 4 years old, I’m good not being a homeowner.
  • Cars. I like a good ride as much as the next person, but for me, it’s a means to an end.
  • Domestic Travel. Aside from national parks a few unexplored states, the domestic travel category is rather small. I credit that to a lot of travel throughout the US growing up. As of today, I’ve been to 42 states (I’m missing Alaska, Hawaii, North Dakota, South Dakota, Minnesota, Wisconsin, Iowa, and Nebraska).
  • Career. There are a few things on the list that relate back to teaching (which is the area I’ve been involved in for the last 7+ years), but none about achieving specific career goals.
  • Numbers. These aren’t about hitting a specific number, but what to do with that money or time. Hitting $1 million, or $2 million in savings has a goal, but it’s more to “not worry about money”.
  • Kids. Mrs. Minafi and I have decided not to have kids. I have a feeling if we didn’t there would be a section devoted just to them.

Some of these are unrealistic to ever achieve, and that’s OK. I don’t expect I’ll ever visit every UNESCO world heritage site, or eat at every 3-Michelin star restaurant. I’m OK with that.

These can also change.  I’ll be honest, I’ve never taken a multi-day hiking & camping trip before. Who knows, maybe I’ll hate it. If I try it out on a small scale and don’t love it, I’ll remove it from this list. Other things will be added as I learn about them.

Many are ongoing or lifestyle related. Things like always having dessert or reading a book a week are never going to be checked off.

How do you prioritize these?

To me, there is no prioritization. These can be done in any order at any time. Looking at this list initially, I assumed most would need time off work to do. At least 56 items on this list can be done while working a fulltime job right here from my home in Salt Lake City. That’s a crazy high amount!

When I think about early retirement or being able to do whatever I want full-time, it’s a good gut check to think that over half of this list could be done today. If I’m able to do these now and I’m not doing them, that’s on me. No amount of money or time is going to change that.

What If You Complete Things on the List?

Take them off and replace them! This is a living list, not one to complete and be done with life. This is a list that will always have at least 100 uncompleted things on it.

Parting Words from Renee West

If you haven’t taken the time to watch Renee’s talk, I’d encourage you to check it out. One

Two small stones sit atop my office desk, each engraved with a single word. One says, “Imagine.” The other says, “Create.” Those two words have made all the difference for me. I believe that success is limited only by our ability to imagine what we want and to lead ourselves to it.

What do you know, have, do or be. Have you created a similar list? If so, feel free to comment and link to it! I’d love to read other peoples lists.

This lesson:

Next up:

What would you do if you could plan out every minute of every day? Would you schedule activities, leisure or work? I recently tried an exercise which helped me understand what’s most important for me to focus on. Try it for yourself and see what would make up your perfect week.

2.3: Plan Your Perfect Week in Retirement Today